Desire for sex doesn't always come naturally

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Acupressure, invigorating tea and nutrition, easy to prepare to positively influence your sexual experience. Also read what two well-known herbs can do. And why men and women are so different.

Acupressure to get in the mood
To get in the mood for intimate activity, you can easily stimulate a number of acupuncture points yourself. Or let your partner do it for you, also nice! The following points are suitable for this 'acupressure'.

Heart 1
Lie on your back and cross your arms in front of your chest while placing your fingertips in the deepest hollow of your armpits. Breathe calmly in and out 10 times. This way you get rid of the stress of the day and relax.

DuMo 4 and RenMo 6
While lying on your back, move your hands to stimulate the points DuMo 4 and RenMo 6. Slide your right hand palm down between the surface and your lower back, so that your hand lies just above the buttock cleft in the middle of your back. At the same time, place your left hand in the middle of your belly below the navel. Your hands are opposite each other. Feel the warmth and breathe towards your hands (abdominal breathing). Let your hands rest quietly for 60 seconds.

RenMo 1
This point is located in men at the attachment of the scrotum. With a gentle massage of this point, the partner gives the man a stimulating foreplay. The female body also has the acupuncture point RenMo 1, which, however, is not usable in this way. There are plenty of sensitive points nearby, but we do not know them as acupuncture points.

Invigorating Tea and Nutrition
Need a pick-me-up when you're low on energy for a lovemaking session? Then take a look at the recipes below.

Two glasses of star anise tea
This well-known tea contains enough licorice, provided you brew it strong. Take
one tea bag per glass and let it steep for ten minutes. Cover the glass with a saucer to keep the heat and volatile substances in. Note: this tea is not recommended if you have high blood pressure.

Home-made variant from the Traditional Chinese kitchen
You will need a cinnamon stick, 10 black peppercorns, and some fresh
parsley. If you do not have high blood pressure, you can add a licorice stick. Bring all ingredients to a boil with half a liter of water
and let it simmer for 10 minutes. Enjoy drinking two cups of this tea at your leisure.

Cleopatra's love elixir
In a blender, mix half a banana with a portion of watermelon (peeled and deseeded), along with an unripe papaya and half a teaspoon of ground cloves.

Recipe from Don Juan
The tried and true recipe of the famous lover Don Juan consisted of a large
glass of tomato juice with a few finely chopped basil leaves.

Recipe from Casanova
Oysters, lots of oysters…. Contain zinc, just like caviar, lobster, and eel. And while
we're at the table: honey, truffles, asparagus, tomatoes, game meat, celery, pheasant, eggs (especially quail eggs), and of course dark chocolate are known as aphrodisiacs.

Eating Healthy
If you need something for a good sex life, it's energy. Eating healthy is essential for that. Many couples with young children are so tired and worn out that their sex life is on the back burner. So it's important to ensure you have enough energy. However, it remains a fact that the desire for sex often doesn't just come naturally. Making your own desire is still the best and most effective. Making time for each other, enjoying meals together. And, a no-brainer, getting to bed on time.